Creating Objections…Money

So you want to be a writer, a painter, a songwriter, a dancer, a quilter, or a creative entrepreneur but you just don’t have enough time, confidence, or money?

All that creative energy lives within us waiting for its chance to surface once we decide to get out of the way of thinking our way through it. Creativity is an evolution process not a thought process but yet we try to bottle it up as a commodity to market and sell for some monetary value for our efforts.

Does it have to be that way though? Can’t living a creative life mean we appreciate the gift of creativity in each other and honor those gifts by creating that which calls to be created. Is selling for profit or receiving an award the only reward? Why does it have to be all or nothing? This mindset is one of the biggest obstacles keeping us from pursuing art, not having enough of something. Enough already! Create your art for the sake of creating your art, for that alone is enough.

The true value of art is immeasurable because it belongs to the eternal.

Money – Does working on your creative project cost money or is it the perception that if I leap into living the life of an artist then I will have to learn to be happy hungry? Living a more creative life doesn’t mean you have to quit your job and create art all day every day, where you don’t worry about paying the bills and life is just peachy because all you do is create your art. Let’s get real here, is that really the life you want to live anyway? After all your then your creative pursuits would become your work and too much work…well makes Jack a dull boy, right? Again it doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

The practice of committing to your art should not have a price on it, sure there may be sacrifices to make, perhaps cutting some other expenses that also happen to take up your time and money hindering you from working on your craft anyway. But honestly to bring more creativity into your life it shouldn’t cost a thing.

Think about it. We can create new schedules, new living spaces, new relationships, new opportunities, new ideas, new habits that don’t cost a thing. The act of creating anything doesn’t have a dollar sign attached to it nor should its perceived value determine whether we pursue it or not. If I was inclined to paint a picture of a beautiful sunset outside my window, would I not paint it because I thought I couldn’t make a living of it, of course not, and so I paint it anyway mainly because I enjoy painting sunsets and then secondly hoping that perhaps I can share this gift of painting sunsets with someone else who enjoys looking at sunsets.

There are some real solutions to all these creative objections we use. We can let go of the notion that if we can’t make a living off our art then why bother or if one person says its ugly then why bother or it’s just not a priority right now but maybe someday I will. Don’t let these creative objections continue to prevent you from opening the door to your creativity.

The real reward for producing great art does not fall upon the magnitude for acceptance but rather the gratification we get by creating something from that part of our being that seeks to connect us with others, that sacred place within waiting to come to life through our creative practice….and that is priceless!

Creating Objections – Time…Overruled!

Time business concept. judge

This is the first of several common creative objections people use when asked about their creative endeavors.

Time – there’s just isn’t enough of it. You may feel this way too, there’s just not enough time to devote to my creativity on a full time basis so I won’t bother. But does it have to be all or nothing? What if there is a way to devote fully to your artistic projects by making a decision to do so and working within the time you have. SO you only have thirty minutes late at night to work on your project then devote yourself fully to those thirty minutes. Consider other ways to create during your busy day, even if it may not be the ideal time space you envisioned, that doesn’t mean you have to give it up altogether or punish your life for not being able to devote more time being creative.

If being creative is that important to you then you will create the space. It is about priorities and perhaps right now in your life there are other pressing priorities and your creative life has a smaller piece of the clock but that also doesn’t mean it has to suffer or be silenced, you can still find ways to fill your creative glass without feeling half empty. Once you decide to open up space in your busy calendar by re-prioritizing and making room for your creative projects you will have countered your first objection. Then surround yourself with other creative folks who are encouraging and supportive especially when you feel those creative objections surface.

There is no perfect storm for any artist – the conditions – the finances – and time allowance are always a factor.

If you still think that somehow if you just had enough time then you could become a full time artist, you are missing the whole point in that you still have to commit to the creation. There will always be some form of objection we create to try to stop our creative process, some distraction that says not now, but it is up to us to overrule those objections by showing up anyway and start creating.

That’s the solution to any creative objection – make it a priority – create the space – doing the work will silence the objection. Letting go of the notion that if we can’t do it full time then why bother or that someday we will have more time to be creative are all flimsy excuses that keep us safe from opening the door to creativity.

Your creative muscles are ready, they don’t care about your excuses, in their view this is do or die to their livelihood. They want to practice through commitment, to explore and experiment. This is what enjoying the creative life means, to honor your muse, create with intention, have fun with the process, try new things, collaborate, let go of expectations and trust the evolution in developing on its own without interference of perfection. When we realize that we have the ability to create the life we want, and begin to pay more attention to the choices we make with our time filled days we are well on our way to creating new life. As writer Sarah Selecky says in this article “Choice is creativity. Making choices about life is making art out of it”

To live more creatively means just that, to live more creatively throughout your day. We are amazing creative beings that crave to be open to see new possibilities and seize them. It’s time to start creating our art and stop creating objections.

Stay tuned for Creating Objections Part 2 – Fear

Start. Stop. Start. Stop

Starting BlockFrom start to finish to start. Getting started on a new project is certainly exciting and full of momentum, the juices begin to flow and we fall into our groove rocking along on our creative adventure, but then as we dive deeper into our project we begin to question the direction and seek out a destination. Where is this taking me and when do I get off this creative train? When do we know when we are finished with one idea ready to switch gears and move onto another project?

I’m a serial innovator, I can come up with ideas and new beginnings all day long, it is the execution and commitment to those ideas where my weakness shines through, knowing when the path is complete or incomplete. Should I let it go so it can simmer in its own creative juices for a while or move onto the next best thing? Sometimes when I get to what may feel like a stopping point I begin to release my grip on its perfection and say ok it’s time to release (kind of like this blog post). You are on your own now, I’ve done my part to set the stage it’s your time to shine and if I keep tinkering with you I know that I’ll mess you up into something you weren’t meant to be, like a hovering parent who holds her children too close. Have a little faith, set them free and give them space to come into their own, allow them to fly.

Every ending offers a new beginning. As soon as we embrace the ending of a project we open up space for another opportunity to create again by pouring yourself into something new. These moments are inviting us to set our projects free. They may need some support from time to time but they really need us to accept their time of completion by knowing when to let them live on their own without constant interference. The finish line of one project can be the starting block (which sounds like an oxymoron) to embark on another idea journey, to begin the creative process all over again. Life and art do imitate each other, they are both a continual process of start and stop, capture and let go, ebb and flow.

Letting go of the old and welcoming the new can be an invigorating process, and believe it or not you can teach an old dog new tricks, it’s just hard for that old dog to learn to let go of the old tricks. Stay inspired to the possibilities that live in new beginnings, the sparks of creation that keep things growing, tap into what has been silent for so long, wake it up, nurture it, practice it, love it and watch it grow. New life is always available once we learn to let go of what is finished and start paying attention to what is calling us to bring it to life.

Here’s to getting started or stopping or starting again…wherever you find yourself in the creative game.

Starting Block — Image by © Royalty-Free/Corbis

Silencing the competition

It begins with a thought, an idea, and sometimes a quiet discomfort, where a desire within rises to the surface inviting you to envision a new life. Then you either dismiss the thought with a million excuses or put it off as a fanciful idea but in time without expectation it comes back around again whispering, remember me? What do you think? Why are you ignoring my invitation…how about it…let’s do this! You think about it throughout the day and begin to entertain your new guest called desire. That is the beginning of change, where we consider replacing what is with what could be, all the while keeping the company of our desire at a safe distance as we carry this idea of change to ourselves.

Consider how this all began with a thought to introduce change into our lives and then another thought enters to prevent any notion of change. How powerful our thoughts can be, they can be encouraging and supportive or discouraging and destructive, and we get to decide which ones we want to follow. Change can be so hard to accept and yet so easy to get lost in confusion and indecision once we allow this conflict within to take over our peaceful sanity.

Silence this competition I say! Face the ongoing battle of words within with a smile as you watch the opposition voice all its excuses and reasons you should leave things alone, saying there is no need to disrupt this life you’ve come to know. However desire is resilient and cannot be knocked down by details and distractions of the logical mind. It thrives to stay alive until it is allowed to reveal its purpose, no matter how much resistance tries to prevent it from coming to life, it will not go quietly.

Discovering our deepest desires is a process that evolves as we begin to take steps toward realizing our dreams. It can start simple, thought by thought, step by step to build confidence in our own ability, trusting our intuition and honoring a part of ourselves that so often gets silenced by the loud and persistent mentality that thinks our way through life.

Change doesn’t have to be so difficult, if we can learn to quiet the constant noisy mental chatter that makes us think any idea of change has to be challenged. So let’s stop competing with ourselves, let the pros and cons have the floor for a bit, and then open some space for desire to step in and have its say. Remember who is in control, you! You can take charge of this battle.

I hesitate to use the word battle because it doesn’t have to be so contentious, although it certainly feels that way. However if we release the urge to fight and be open during this process, sometimes the resistance has its own purpose to serve and protect us, so allow all of it to pass through, rather than engaging in the conflict. We can take charge by observing, listening, and directing how much time we let the resistance stick around and then honoring the silent sacred space that is calling for our attention. Fostering that seedling of desire with care while recognizing resistance for what it is, most likely fear and self-doubt, will begin to nourish the idea of allowing something new into our lives.

Listen to the call within that is inviting you to set out toward new adventures, to stretch your boundaries and live more fully; it’s up to you to decide which thoughts to follow. Change starts with a thought, honor that for the spark of creativity it is, then decide how you will RSVP to the invitation.

Is the day half empty or half full?

sunriseNew month, new ideas and new writing schedule. It’s funny how we can use these time markers to manage our lives, by the hours in the day, days of the week and dates on the calendar. But is it possible to adopt a free spirit lifestyle without these time boundaries and still be productive? It has been a few years now since I’ve been able to shed the Monday through Friday 9-5 standard work week schedule mindset, having worked in that world for so long before I entered into self-employment. It was a challenge at first to look at my days differently but I began to realize that time is really just a tool in measuring time, of course it has its practical purposes like I’ll meet you at the coffee shop at 8:00, or hello I’m another year older but really it is a way to describe an evolution of the day cycle that will repeat itself again and again marking our moments here on earth.

Once we begin to shift our consciousness in how we perceive time and how we spend those hours in the day we’ll begin to realize how much more time is available than we think.

We here so often about how we lead crazy busy lives not having enough time to do the things we want to do and on and on, and in a way I can completely relate to those days while raising a family with work and school activities and varied schedules it can get hectic and time crunched but even that crazy busy lifestyle can be better managed.

When we get caught up in the lack of time mentality we need to remember we also have the ability to make more of it. We can create that space as easily as we fill up our days by simply eliminating certain things that take up the time we wish we had.

I know that some people are time management challenged, the always late to the party or in a hurry crowd then there’s the other prompt time attentive dictators, (I used to be one of them) who manage every minute of the day leaving no room for flexibility. If you want more time to do the creative things you crave, turn off the television. Do you want more time with your friends and family? Then look at how you fill your day and remove those things that prevent you from enjoying those relationships.

As the saying goes time is money and in some ways it really is. Can we make more money? Sure. Can we make more time? Sure. Can we evaluate where we spend our money? Sure. Can we examine how we spend our time? Sure. It’s all about priorities and perception in where you place value and what is truly important to you.

Anytime I feel that lack of time mentality creep in to my thoughts I remind myself to expand into another way of thinking. It’s like looking at the clock with how many hours are left in the day or looking at it with how many you’ve already enjoyed. Is the day half-filled or half empty?

So here’s to a new day, a new week, a new blog post, this is your invitation to start something new.

I’d love to hear what new ventures you will begin today.

photo credit Mike Messerli

How to get out of the block…

Block The beginning of a writer’s life can be the hardest and the easiest…the hardest part is actually making your way to the paper, creating the space in time and committing to the process and the easiest part is you just have to stop the excuses and start tapping away, I know not as easy as it sounds but in some ways it’s just that simple. Before long you’ll begin to find your groove and set a routine for your writing practice, but one day something strange happens, you begin to feel the walls of procrastination creep in. I’ll write my next blog post tomorrow, I think about that later, I promise I’ll do this by the end of the week, until it’s the end of the week and the page is still blank. Yep that is what happened to me, it’s the end of the week and the post I was working on didn’t feel right no matter how much I tried to make it work, it just wasn’t happening. So here’s my writer’s block solution, go find another creative outlet. Do you enjoy painting, doodling, dancing, or photography? Dive into something else to loosen up the creative muscles and that’s just what I did, I jumped into my photo gallery and selected a few shots of my stepping out venture the other day and brought them to life for you.
Natures Art
This twisted vine sculpture caught my eye in how easily nature can create its own works of art.
Just for fun – Can you find the turtles sunbathing?
Lake view
Enjoy your creative journey and do a little doodle dance…

Stepping out to step back in…

Nature blog3Making waves and stirring up the status quo is what it took for me to answer last week’s post “What do writers do for fun?” So I made a go of it, by stepping away from the writing routine to venture out and find my way to fun, which for me involves simply being outdoors. As I was strolling along my nature trail I realized that the whole idea of “fun” is subjective isn’t it? My version of fun may not come close to your version of fun, some people need physical activity to experience fun like playing a sport or boating or skiing and some people can have fun by being a spectator watching a sport or going to a live concert. Whichever activity falls into your definition of fun, I’ve discovered how important it is to the writing life to factor in some aspect of fun every now and then. By doing so, you spur creativity that brings in a fresh perspective once you return to the pad ready to write, even if it starts out by writing about the fun you had.

Just for the fun of it this past weekend, I stepped into my fun zone, taking in the sights and sounds of nature. This is where I was able to silence the mind chatter long enough to enjoy what was right in front of me, the trail, the canopy of trees, the water snake slithering through the creek current, the birds chatting back and forth, the goats in the far off field, dogs barking at passersby, and the spray of the waterfall that helped guide me back home. That was fun, my little day venture, as simple as it sounds, getting out into the open spaces of nature is just another writing tool I use when the wheels of creativity get stuck. Stepping out, so I can step back in. stepping out nature

Tis the season…for fun

summer funWhat do writers do for fun? They read of course, or do they write? This is certainly true for us writers who love the solitude of writing and enjoy the stream of flow as the story begins to take shape. But seriously or not so seriously what does fun look like in a writer’s life? Does it take a conscious effort to step away from the page and venture out into new experiences? So many questions make me wonder how my fellow friends in the writing world incorporate fun into their lives. For me, it actually takes as much time, effort and commitment to step away from the keypad as it does to get in gear to write. I’ve even noticed that not unlike the population of people who are addicted to their devices and social media, I am never more than an arm reach away from paper and pen which is part of what prompted this idea to take a reprieve from writing. At least to create some space for “fun” that comes in some other form than words, so I guess that rules out watching Wheel of Fortune.

The timing is perfect as we enter the season of summer aka the season of fun. When the sunny days and warmer temps call us to take part in all it has to offer from outdoor adventures, sharing spontaneous laughter to the unexpected. So here’s the challenge and I hope you’ll join me, what is one thing that takes up most of your time and attention? Got it…Ok now go ahead and give it a well-deserved summer break. It’s time to switch it up, shake up the routine, try something new, meet someone new, let your hair down and make some fun happen. Don’t think on it too much, just pick one thing that keeps you busy or preoccupied and decide that you are going to take some time off and go on vacation, not literally but mentally, that’s right pretend you are on vacation from your routine that habitual cycle of certainty. It may not be easy at first but don’t make it any harder than it is, just make a decision to stop the norm and start a new norm. I know easy for me to say but hey I’m going on this trip with you too. I’ll leave room to write my weekly blog entry though after all you want to see how it’s going right? But I promise I will still find a way to release from my writing obsession and let summer fun find its way into my days. I’m confident it will make me a richer writer to experience life beyond the screen and I hope you’ll share with me too as we jump into the pool of summertime fun. Hey maybe we’ll even discover the answer to the question. What do writers do for fun?

a Writer’s life

typeWriting a book is easy, it is the marketing that’s a challenge or is it writing a book is a challenge, selling it will be easy. Whichever statement you agree with they both hold their own truth. It certainly takes a sometimes monumental and conscious effort to actually create space in your day and commit to writing, getting started can be the hardest part in becoming a writer but once you take that first step and start tapping away, the words somehow find their way onto the page. Soon you’ll discover that starting and stopping is all a part of the process but at least you’ve jumped the gigantic hurdle in getting started. The idea of being a writer seems to be a dream job to so many people and I’ve often wondered why? Is it the appeal of solitude during the writing process, the thought of achieving best seller status, having your work of fiction turned into a movie? Perhaps aspiring writers that have never jumped that first hurdle think of it as the perfect job where you can work from home, leisurely on your own schedule while lounging in your pajamas all day long, as you feverishly try to keep up with your fingers as they hit the keyboard because the storyline is moving at lightning speed you can hardly keep up. Oh how ideas seduce us into simple thinking, there is so much more to being a writer than those scenarios we’ve imagined. I am by no means claiming to be an expert of the ins and outs of a writer’s life frankly because there is no such thing, there is no set formula on what the day’s routine should look like in living a writer’s life. What may work for one writer may not work for another, and writers write for different reasons, some people write for income, some people write for achievement, others for entertainment and some because they have to, which is where I fall into as a writer, I simply have to. Writing to me is like breathing, although each and every breath we take is no less important than the next the same can’t be said for writing but that doesn’t stop my need to write in order to feel alive. Writing saves me; it is my refuge, my counsel, my outlet, my whipping post, my way to communicate to people and my way to express what I truly think and feel. It may be read by others or kept for my eyes only; either way the writing lives on its own not requiring outside validation. If you are a writer I want to ask you, why do you write? Or if you dream of one day calling yourself a writer I want to ask you why don’t you write?