Creating Objections…Money

So you want to be a writer, a painter, a songwriter, a dancer, a quilter, or a creative entrepreneur but you just don’t have enough time, confidence, or money?

All that creative energy lives within us waiting for its chance to surface once we decide to get out of the way of thinking our way through it. Creativity is an evolution process not a thought process but yet we try to bottle it up as a commodity to market and sell for some monetary value for our efforts.

Does it have to be that way though? Can’t living a creative life mean we appreciate the gift of creativity in each other and honor those gifts by creating that which calls to be created. Is selling for profit or receiving an award the only reward? Why does it have to be all or nothing? This mindset is one of the biggest obstacles keeping us from pursuing art, not having enough of something. Enough already! Create your art for the sake of creating your art, for that alone is enough.

The true value of art is immeasurable because it belongs to the eternal.

Money – Does working on your creative project cost money or is it the perception that if I leap into living the life of an artist then I will have to learn to be happy hungry? Living a more creative life doesn’t mean you have to quit your job and create art all day every day, where you don’t worry about paying the bills and life is just peachy because all you do is create your art. Let’s get real here, is that really the life you want to live anyway? After all your then your creative pursuits would become your work and too much work…well makes Jack a dull boy, right? Again it doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

The practice of committing to your art should not have a price on it, sure there may be sacrifices to make, perhaps cutting some other expenses that also happen to take up your time and money hindering you from working on your craft anyway. But honestly to bring more creativity into your life it shouldn’t cost a thing.

Think about it. We can create new schedules, new living spaces, new relationships, new opportunities, new ideas, new habits that don’t cost a thing. The act of creating anything doesn’t have a dollar sign attached to it nor should its perceived value determine whether we pursue it or not. If I was inclined to paint a picture of a beautiful sunset outside my window, would I not paint it because I thought I couldn’t make a living of it, of course not, and so I paint it anyway mainly because I enjoy painting sunsets and then secondly hoping that perhaps I can share this gift of painting sunsets with someone else who enjoys looking at sunsets.

There are some real solutions to all these creative objections we use. We can let go of the notion that if we can’t make a living off our art then why bother or if one person says its ugly then why bother or it’s just not a priority right now but maybe someday I will. Don’t let these creative objections continue to prevent you from opening the door to your creativity.

The real reward for producing great art does not fall upon the magnitude for acceptance but rather the gratification we get by creating something from that part of our being that seeks to connect us with others, that sacred place within waiting to come to life through our creative practice….and that is priceless!

Creating Objections… Fear less!

I have a tremendous respect for fiction writers who have the ability to take us into our imaginations with their remarkable gift of crafting interesting characters, weaving fantastic stories into visual worlds by using words written on a page. The dedication to show up and commit to the process of allowing the story to unfold on its own and not being afraid to let it take over the logical mind is an art in itself. Yet at some level we all deal with some measure of fear when we approach our own writing, fear of not being good enough or not having an audience. The only way to answer that objection is to answer why do we write? Are we really writing for approval anyway?

Removing the validation factor from the equation of success releases our fear of being judged. Creating with intention and being honest in our writing as we craft our own beautiful stories brings forth the courage that is required to create any work of art.

When we marvel at a true “work” of art, we are appreciating the dedication it took from the artist who committed to creating something from nothing and the courage to explore through that creativity.

It is the simplest and purest form of sincerity when we offer our gifts from the heart, where fear has no place. There is no fear placed in the words – in the stitches – in the paint – in the click of the camera so why should we add it to the piece later. Fear is an illusion that we create in thinking we have to satisfy the masses.

The next time you begin to feel that ole fear rising, remember this isn’t a life or death situation if you put something out there that doesn’t appear to be a success you will be ok. Like beauty, success is in the eye of the beholder. You determine how success is measured. Is it by starting and finishing a project, maybe your work inspired a smile or perhaps that quilt brought someone warmth, your painting reminded someone of home.

Let’s stop creating the fear factor into our works and be brave to create with purpose through our commitment and application where fear has no say other than goodbye I am not welcomed here.

Creating Objections – Time…Overruled!

Time business concept. judge

This is the first of several common creative objections people use when asked about their creative endeavors.

Time – there’s just isn’t enough of it. You may feel this way too, there’s just not enough time to devote to my creativity on a full time basis so I won’t bother. But does it have to be all or nothing? What if there is a way to devote fully to your artistic projects by making a decision to do so and working within the time you have. SO you only have thirty minutes late at night to work on your project then devote yourself fully to those thirty minutes. Consider other ways to create during your busy day, even if it may not be the ideal time space you envisioned, that doesn’t mean you have to give it up altogether or punish your life for not being able to devote more time being creative.

If being creative is that important to you then you will create the space. It is about priorities and perhaps right now in your life there are other pressing priorities and your creative life has a smaller piece of the clock but that also doesn’t mean it has to suffer or be silenced, you can still find ways to fill your creative glass without feeling half empty. Once you decide to open up space in your busy calendar by re-prioritizing and making room for your creative projects you will have countered your first objection. Then surround yourself with other creative folks who are encouraging and supportive especially when you feel those creative objections surface.

There is no perfect storm for any artist – the conditions – the finances – and time allowance are always a factor.

If you still think that somehow if you just had enough time then you could become a full time artist, you are missing the whole point in that you still have to commit to the creation. There will always be some form of objection we create to try to stop our creative process, some distraction that says not now, but it is up to us to overrule those objections by showing up anyway and start creating.

That’s the solution to any creative objection – make it a priority – create the space – doing the work will silence the objection. Letting go of the notion that if we can’t do it full time then why bother or that someday we will have more time to be creative are all flimsy excuses that keep us safe from opening the door to creativity.

Your creative muscles are ready, they don’t care about your excuses, in their view this is do or die to their livelihood. They want to practice through commitment, to explore and experiment. This is what enjoying the creative life means, to honor your muse, create with intention, have fun with the process, try new things, collaborate, let go of expectations and trust the evolution in developing on its own without interference of perfection. When we realize that we have the ability to create the life we want, and begin to pay more attention to the choices we make with our time filled days we are well on our way to creating new life. As writer Sarah Selecky says in this article “Choice is creativity. Making choices about life is making art out of it”

To live more creatively means just that, to live more creatively throughout your day. We are amazing creative beings that crave to be open to see new possibilities and seize them. It’s time to start creating our art and stop creating objections.

Stay tuned for Creating Objections Part 2 – Fear

Start. Stop. Start. Stop

Starting BlockFrom start to finish to start. Getting started on a new project is certainly exciting and full of momentum, the juices begin to flow and we fall into our groove rocking along on our creative adventure, but then as we dive deeper into our project we begin to question the direction and seek out a destination. Where is this taking me and when do I get off this creative train? When do we know when we are finished with one idea ready to switch gears and move onto another project?

I’m a serial innovator, I can come up with ideas and new beginnings all day long, it is the execution and commitment to those ideas where my weakness shines through, knowing when the path is complete or incomplete. Should I let it go so it can simmer in its own creative juices for a while or move onto the next best thing? Sometimes when I get to what may feel like a stopping point I begin to release my grip on its perfection and say ok it’s time to release (kind of like this blog post). You are on your own now, I’ve done my part to set the stage it’s your time to shine and if I keep tinkering with you I know that I’ll mess you up into something you weren’t meant to be, like a hovering parent who holds her children too close. Have a little faith, set them free and give them space to come into their own, allow them to fly.

Every ending offers a new beginning. As soon as we embrace the ending of a project we open up space for another opportunity to create again by pouring yourself into something new. These moments are inviting us to set our projects free. They may need some support from time to time but they really need us to accept their time of completion by knowing when to let them live on their own without constant interference. The finish line of one project can be the starting block (which sounds like an oxymoron) to embark on another idea journey, to begin the creative process all over again. Life and art do imitate each other, they are both a continual process of start and stop, capture and let go, ebb and flow.

Letting go of the old and welcoming the new can be an invigorating process, and believe it or not you can teach an old dog new tricks, it’s just hard for that old dog to learn to let go of the old tricks. Stay inspired to the possibilities that live in new beginnings, the sparks of creation that keep things growing, tap into what has been silent for so long, wake it up, nurture it, practice it, love it and watch it grow. New life is always available once we learn to let go of what is finished and start paying attention to what is calling us to bring it to life.

Here’s to getting started or stopping or starting again…wherever you find yourself in the creative game.

Starting Block — Image by © Royalty-Free/Corbis

Shame on me for being shameless?


The writer lives in solitude until the day their work comes to life through publishing, then the real work begins to market and promote the book. This is where I am living these days, promoting my latest release Nature’s Angels. It’s a fun lyrical story that follows a grandfather and his grandson along their journey through nature. If only this process could be fun and lyrical too!

As much as writers struggle through their own writing process, this step of the publishing journey is the most challenging for me. Maybe it is easy for some people who are born with the shameless promotion gene but for those of us who spend our days with our heads in books and notepads it’s a little harder to really put yourself out there. I’d rather write about it than actually get out there and do it.

This month’s posts have focused on the writing process, so it is only fitting to end this series with the final stage, selling that beautiful work of art. After all we want to see some return for all of our hard work, even though that isn’t our motivation to write. So far I’ve probably given away more books than sales but that’s ok because that is part of the process too, there is a benefit in getting the book out there for reviews, word of mouth marketing, and for me any child that gets to read this book is a reward to me and is the reason I write, for someone to read and enjoy what I have to share.

I would imagine that whether you are just starting out as a writer or a seasoned published author the anxiety has to be the same in asking will there be an audience? This is no different than any stage performer on opening night who wonders if there will be a full house or at least half full? Most performers thrive off the energy of the audience and if there isn’t anyone out there then what’s the point, it’s simply a rehearsal. We all want to be received and our work appreciated in some way and in the writing world that would be through our readers. So whether a million people read my book or just a handful, I find satisfaction in knowing that it has reached a few, that it no longer sits in my unfinished project folder and is just beginning to take on a life of its own and I get to be a part of that journey.

Our culture measures success and sometimes talent by volume, how many record or book sales, how many likes and followers. Which sounds so high school to me, like we are in one big popularity contest? Most artists just want to be able to do their art and live comfortably so they can continue to do their art. We balance between the art of writing and the desire for profit but the real reason we keep at it is because we have to.

So even though the written work on Nature’s Angels is finished, I’ll continue breathing life into it by marketing through social media, making contacts, stepping out of my comfort zone and onto the shameless promotion stage hoping there will be an audience. Looking at this process as promoting the book rather than promoting me makes this a lot easier and is a small price I have to pay to get to do what I love, to write on the page…again.

Please share with me your publishing and promotion stories letting me know that there is an audience out there somewhere beyond this post…


Silencing the competition

It begins with a thought, an idea, and sometimes a quiet discomfort, where a desire within rises to the surface inviting you to envision a new life. Then you either dismiss the thought with a million excuses or put it off as a fanciful idea but in time without expectation it comes back around again whispering, remember me? What do you think? Why are you ignoring my invitation…how about it…let’s do this! You think about it throughout the day and begin to entertain your new guest called desire. That is the beginning of change, where we consider replacing what is with what could be, all the while keeping the company of our desire at a safe distance as we carry this idea of change to ourselves.

Consider how this all began with a thought to introduce change into our lives and then another thought enters to prevent any notion of change. How powerful our thoughts can be, they can be encouraging and supportive or discouraging and destructive, and we get to decide which ones we want to follow. Change can be so hard to accept and yet so easy to get lost in confusion and indecision once we allow this conflict within to take over our peaceful sanity.

Silence this competition I say! Face the ongoing battle of words within with a smile as you watch the opposition voice all its excuses and reasons you should leave things alone, saying there is no need to disrupt this life you’ve come to know. However desire is resilient and cannot be knocked down by details and distractions of the logical mind. It thrives to stay alive until it is allowed to reveal its purpose, no matter how much resistance tries to prevent it from coming to life, it will not go quietly.

Discovering our deepest desires is a process that evolves as we begin to take steps toward realizing our dreams. It can start simple, thought by thought, step by step to build confidence in our own ability, trusting our intuition and honoring a part of ourselves that so often gets silenced by the loud and persistent mentality that thinks our way through life.

Change doesn’t have to be so difficult, if we can learn to quiet the constant noisy mental chatter that makes us think any idea of change has to be challenged. So let’s stop competing with ourselves, let the pros and cons have the floor for a bit, and then open some space for desire to step in and have its say. Remember who is in control, you! You can take charge of this battle.

I hesitate to use the word battle because it doesn’t have to be so contentious, although it certainly feels that way. However if we release the urge to fight and be open during this process, sometimes the resistance has its own purpose to serve and protect us, so allow all of it to pass through, rather than engaging in the conflict. We can take charge by observing, listening, and directing how much time we let the resistance stick around and then honoring the silent sacred space that is calling for our attention. Fostering that seedling of desire with care while recognizing resistance for what it is, most likely fear and self-doubt, will begin to nourish the idea of allowing something new into our lives.

Listen to the call within that is inviting you to set out toward new adventures, to stretch your boundaries and live more fully; it’s up to you to decide which thoughts to follow. Change starts with a thought, honor that for the spark of creativity it is, then decide how you will RSVP to the invitation.

Is the day half empty or half full?

sunriseNew month, new ideas and new writing schedule. It’s funny how we can use these time markers to manage our lives, by the hours in the day, days of the week and dates on the calendar. But is it possible to adopt a free spirit lifestyle without these time boundaries and still be productive? It has been a few years now since I’ve been able to shed the Monday through Friday 9-5 standard work week schedule mindset, having worked in that world for so long before I entered into self-employment. It was a challenge at first to look at my days differently but I began to realize that time is really just a tool in measuring time, of course it has its practical purposes like I’ll meet you at the coffee shop at 8:00, or hello I’m another year older but really it is a way to describe an evolution of the day cycle that will repeat itself again and again marking our moments here on earth.

Once we begin to shift our consciousness in how we perceive time and how we spend those hours in the day we’ll begin to realize how much more time is available than we think.

We here so often about how we lead crazy busy lives not having enough time to do the things we want to do and on and on, and in a way I can completely relate to those days while raising a family with work and school activities and varied schedules it can get hectic and time crunched but even that crazy busy lifestyle can be better managed.

When we get caught up in the lack of time mentality we need to remember we also have the ability to make more of it. We can create that space as easily as we fill up our days by simply eliminating certain things that take up the time we wish we had.

I know that some people are time management challenged, the always late to the party or in a hurry crowd then there’s the other prompt time attentive dictators, (I used to be one of them) who manage every minute of the day leaving no room for flexibility. If you want more time to do the creative things you crave, turn off the television. Do you want more time with your friends and family? Then look at how you fill your day and remove those things that prevent you from enjoying those relationships.

As the saying goes time is money and in some ways it really is. Can we make more money? Sure. Can we make more time? Sure. Can we evaluate where we spend our money? Sure. Can we examine how we spend our time? Sure. It’s all about priorities and perception in where you place value and what is truly important to you.

Anytime I feel that lack of time mentality creep in to my thoughts I remind myself to expand into another way of thinking. It’s like looking at the clock with how many hours are left in the day or looking at it with how many you’ve already enjoyed. Is the day half-filled or half empty?

So here’s to a new day, a new week, a new blog post, this is your invitation to start something new.

I’d love to hear what new ventures you will begin today.

photo credit Mike Messerli